Struggling with Chaotic Mornings? This 5-Minute Nightly Trick Will Transform Your Life

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Struggling with Chaotic Mornings? This 5-Minute Bedtime Habit Before Sleep Will Transform Your Life

Struggling with Chaotic Mornings? This 5-Minute Nightly Trick Will Transform Your Life

Let’s talk about something we all crave but rarely seem to get enough of—deep, restorative sleep. Sleep isn’t just a luxury; it’s the foundation for everything our body and mind need to thrive. It’s when our muscles repair, our immune system strengthens, and our brain detoxifies, clearing out the clutter of the day. Without it, we feel drained, irritable, and stuck in a fog.

 

 

But let’s face it: modern life doesn’t make it easy to get good-quality sleep. Stress keeps our minds racing, blue light from our screens tricks our brains into thinking it’s daytime, and unresolved worries swirl in our heads, making it nearly impossible to relax.

 

 

One of the most powerful ways I’ve found to calm the chaos before bed is by decluttering your mind. 

 

 

No fancy tools or apps are needed—just a notepad and pen. Writing down your thoughts, intentions, and even tomorrow’s to-do list can create a sense of calm and clarity, setting the stage for deeper, uninterrupted sleep. Over the years, I’ve seen this simple practice transform the sleep of my clients, and I can’t wait to share how it can work for you too.

 

 

Why Your Mind Needs Decluttering Before Sleep

Have you ever laid in bed, exhausted but unable to drift off because your mind won’t stop racing? It’s one of the most common reasons for disrupted sleep cycles. Worries about tomorrow, unfinished tasks, or even random thoughts can create “‘mental clutter’,” keeping your brain in overdrive when it should be winding down.

 

 

This constant buzz in your mind can lead to shallow sleep, frequent awakenings, and feeling groggy the next morning. The truth is, your mind needs calmness to allow your body to slip into the deeper stages of sleep where true repair happens. Think of it like tidying a messy room—you create space for relaxation when you clear out the chaos.

 

 

Our suppressed emotions don’t just disappear. They find ways to express themselves through their behavior or physical health. If we don’t address them, they can manifest as disease, stress, or chronic discomfort. No medicine can fix something like this when your mind is not in the right space. The only solution lies in creating a safe outlet to express these emotions. Writing is one of the best ways to channel and let go of repressed and suppressed feelings.

 

 

Research backs this up. A study on PubMed found that journaling before bed helps reduce overthinking, making it easier to fall asleep. 

 

study
Source: Scullin, M. K., Krueger, M. L., Ballard, H. K., Pruett, N., & Bliwise, D. L. (2017). The Effects of Bedtime Writing on Difficulty Falling Asleep: A Polysomnographic Study Comparing To-Do Lists and Completed Activity Lists. Journal of Experimental Psychology. General, 147(1), 139. https://doi.org/10.1037/xge0000374

 

Similarly, a study from NCBI showed that writing down future tasks significantly decreases cognitive load, helping your brain relax and promoting both faster sleep onset and deeper rest. By taking a few minutes to declutter your mind, you’re giving yourself the gift of better sleep and a more peaceful start to the day.

 

 

Study
Source: DiMenichi, B. C., Ceceli, A. O., Bhanji, J. P., & Tricomi, E. (2019). Effects of Expressive Writing on Neural Processing During Learning. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 13, 389. https://doi.org/10.3389/fnhum.2019.00389

 

The Power of Pre-Sleep Writing: How It Works

Pre-sleep writing is a simple yet transformative habit. It’s all about taking a few moments before bedtime to organize your thoughts, note down your worries, and set intentions for the next day. Think of it as decluttering your mind—clearing out the noise so you can rest easy.

 

 

The benefits are profound. By writing down your tasks and intentions, you reduce your mental load, freeing your brain from the constant loop of “‘what if’s’” and “‘don’t forget.’” It sharpens your focus by giving your mind clear goals for the next day and provides an emotional release that calms lingering stress.

 

 

From my personal practice and the feedback I’ve received from patients, this habit works wonders. Many of them report waking up feeling organized and sleeping with a calm mind. A study in the Journal of Experimental Psychology supports this, showing that task-oriented journaling before bed improves sleep quality by reducing the cognitive burden on the brain.

 

 

Source: Scullin MK, Krueger ML, Ballard HK, Pruett N, Bliwise DL. The effects of bedtime writing on difficulty falling asleep: A polysomnographic study comparing to-do lists and completed activity lists. J Exp Psychol Gen. 2018 Jan;147(1):139-146. doi: 10.1037/xge0000374. Epub 2017 Oct 23. PMID: 29058942; PMCID: PMC5758411.

 

 

5 Steps to Start Pre-Sleep Writing

Pre-sleep writing is a simple and intentional practice that can transform your nights and mornings. Here’s how to get started:

 

 

Step 1: Reflect on Your Day

Take five5 minutes to write down unresolved tasks or lingering thoughts from the day. Whether it’s an incomplete project or an interaction that’s been playing on your mind, putting it on paper helps you acknowledge and release it.

 

 

Step 2: Plan Intentions for Tomorrow

Write down clear, actionable tasks for the next day. Include everything—from workouts and meetings to gratitude practices or meals. Be specific about timing to avoid unnecessary decision-making when the day begins. For example, “‘Morning workout at 7:30 AM’” or “‘10-minute gratitude journal after lunch.’” This creates a mental roadmap, reducing chaos in your mind.

Step 3: Release Your Worries

If certain concerns or problems are weighing on you, write them down as “‘to-be-addressed’” items. For instance, “‘Follow up on the client email’” instead of worrying about it endlessly. This simple act of framing shifts your mind from stress to problem-solving mode.

 

 

Step 4: Use Affirmations or Positive Reinforcement

Close your writing session with gratitude statements or affirmations like, “I am calm and ready for restorative sleep,” or “I am grateful for the lessons today brought.” These final thoughts set a tone of peace and positivity, creating the perfect environment for deep, restful sleep.

 

 

Benefits of Pre-Sleep Writing: Science and Practice

Let’s talk about the magic that happens when you put pen to paper before bed. Pre-sleep writing isn’t just about organizing your thoughts—it’s about setting yourself up for success, better sleep, and a calmer mind.

 

 

a. Improved Sleep Quality

Ever found yourself tossing and turning, unable to quiet your thoughts? Writing things down can help. It’s like telling your brain, “We’ve got this covered, no need to stress.” Studies, like one from the Journal of Experimental Psychology, show that task-oriented journaling helps people fall asleep faster by offloading mental clutter.

 

 

b. Enhanced Morning Readiness

Imagine waking up with a plan already laid out—no scrambling, no decision fatigue. Pre-sleep writing gives you a head start. Instead of starting your day overwhelmed, you begin with clarity and purpose.

 

Wake up calm and organized
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c. Stress and Anxiety Reduction

Feeling weighed down by worries? Writing them out is like giving your emotions a release valve. It helps lower cortisol levels (the stress hormone), leaving you calmer and more at peace as you drift off to sleep.

 

 

Struggling to Get Started? Try This Pre-Sleep Writing Exercise

If you’re wondering where to start, here’s a simple writing exercise you can try tonight. Grab a notepad or journal and use these prompts to guide you.

 

 

a. Reflect on Your Day: Take Stock

  • What are three things I accomplished today that I’m proud of?
  • Who or what brought me joy today?
  • What’s one challenge or negative experience I faced today, and how can I learn from it?

 

 

End this section by letting go of any lingering negativity. Write: “I release this experience and choose peace.”

 

 

b. Plan Your To-Do List for Tomorrow

  • What are the three most important tasks I need to accomplish tomorrow?
  • When will I dedicate time for activities that nourish me (e.g., workouts, gratitude, or breathwork)?
  • How can I make tomorrow easier for myself?

 

 

By jotting these down, you’re freeing your mind from holding onto them overnight.

 

 

c. Give Thanks and Cultivate Positivity

  • What are three things I’m grateful for today?
    Expressing gratitude rewires your brain to focus on the positive and helps you sleep with a lighter heart.

 

 

d. Sleep Affirmations

End your writing session with affirmations that encourage peace and rest. Write:

 

 

  • “I am at peace with today and look forward to tomorrow.”
  • “I let go of everything outside my control.”
  • “My mind and body deserve deep, healing rest tonight.”

 

 

This simple practice not only clears mental clutter but also sets the tone for a calmer, more restorative sleep. Try it for a week and notice the difference—it’s your mind’s way of hitting the reset button every night.

 

 

Additional Tips for Deep Sleep

While pre-sleep writing is a game-changer, pairing it with other simple habits like bio-hacking can take your sleep quality to the next level.

 

 

a. Combine Writing with Other Relaxation Practices

  • Turn off the screens: Give your brain a break from blue light. If you can’t, grab those blue-blocker glasses.
  • Breathe deeply: Try a few minutes of breathwork or vagus nerve stimulation to calm your nervous system.
  • Wind down with calming activities: Read a book, listen to soothing music, or meditate.

 

 

b. Build a Consistent Bedtime Routine

  • Stick to a regular sleep schedule—it helps your brain recognize when it’s time to shut down.
  • Dim the lights, sip some herbal tea, or take a warm shower. These little rituals can signal your body to prepare for sleep.
  • If you struggle with issues like sleep apnea and drooling that interrupt your sleep, try using a mouth tape to sleep deeper. Do it only if it suits you.

 

 

Remember, it’s not about doing everything perfectly. Start small, experiment, and find what works for you. Pre-sleep writing, paired with these habits, is a simple yet powerful way to claim deeper, more restorative sleep. Try it tonight—your mind and body will thank you.

 

 

Note: Always use Vitamin C which is common sense when trying something new. If you have any existing medical conditions or are on medications, it’s important to consult with your doctor before trying mouth taping. Make an informed choice that aligns with your unique health needs.

 

 

Why Deep Sleep Needs to Become a Movement

Sleep isn’t just about shutting your eyes for a few hours; it’s the foundation of true health and wellness. Quality sleep—where your body heals, your mind unwinds, and your emotions reset—is the ultimate gift you can give yourself. It’s not about how long you sleep, but how deeply you sleep. That’s why I often talk about the Sleep Pillar—one of the most overlooked yet essential elements of a healthy lifestyle. Sleep is when your body does its best work, repairing cells, managing stress, and rejuvenating every system.

 

 

Sleep deeper every night
Image Credits: Freepik

 

 

But here’s the thing: better sleep isn’t just a personal goal—it’s a collective one. That’s why I encourage all of you to join the Sleep Deeper India Movement. Let’s make it our mission to prioritize quality sleep as a nation. Imagine the ripple effect: healthier bodies, calmer minds, stronger immunity, and a renewed sense of balance in our lives.

 

 

Pre-sleep writing is just one of the tools that can get you there. By taking the time to declutter your mind, let go of stress, and prepare for the day ahead, you’re giving yourself permission to truly rest and recharge. So, let’s aim for deeper, restorative sleep—not just as individuals, but as a community that values its health and well-being.

 

 

Final Word

Starting tonight, take out that notepad, reflect, plan, and affirm. Together, let’s make deep sleep the priority it deserves to be, and experience the transformation it brings to our lives. Sleep well, sleep deep, and feel truly rejuvenated—one night at a time.

 

 


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