Be a Healer: 5 Medicines That Require No Medical Degree
Ever wondered how you can become a healer without any pills or potions? It’s simpler than you think. Some of you may have sick parents, family members, friends, or even children. However, you don’t need to be a doctor or nutritionist to be able to help them recover. Over the years, working with countless clients has taught me that the most powerful medicines aren’t found in pharmacies—they’re within us. The practices I’m about to share with you can not only help them in their healing and recovery or condition management, but also aid in preventing illness too.
I’ve observed that what people crave most are the simple, everyday actions that make them feel truly cared for and understood.
That’s why I believe in the transformative power of five potent medicines: Time, Attention, Listening, Compassion, and Love.
These words form the foundations of holistic healing and have the ability to bring a substantial change in the lives of those you care about. While medicines have no replacement, these acts can bring about a shift in their mental and emotional health, which has several benefits like improved immunity, better gut health, and regulated nervous system.
What’s more interesting is that you will find how it all ties back to the five pillars of lifestyle.
Let’s lean into the process of what an ailing loved one needs (or even you need when unwell), understanding how you can use these natural remedies to be a healer to them and connect with others.
The Magic of Giving Your Time
The simple act of spending time with someone can brighten their day. In my years of working with clients, I’ve found that one of the most valuable gifts you can offer is your time.
In our hectic lives, being truly present with a loved one can make all the difference. Your parent, sibling, or child may not always need grand gestures or expensive gifts. But they will always remember the quality of the moments you share.
When you give your time, you’re showing that you value and care about the other person. I’ve seen how just sitting down for a heartfelt chat or taking a walk together can reduce stress and boost emotional well-being.
This is part of the emotional health pillar. Spending quality time helps people feel less isolated and more supported, creating a sense of belonging and peace.
When you’re with a loved one, try putting away your phone and giving them your full attention. These moments of genuine connection can do wonders for their emotional health—and yours too.
Whether dealing with an illness, grief over death, or a breakup, time can be the best healer when you stand by your loved ones. Trust me, the gift of giving your time is one of the simplest yet most profound medicines to heal and connect with those you care about.
Full Attention: The Ultimate Gift
Being heard can lift a huge weight off your shoulders. When you give your full attention to someone, you’re offering more than just your ears—you’re offering validation and understanding.
Scientific studies have shown that people heal better when they have deep dialogue, allowing them to express repressed or suppressed feelings. An emotionally vulnerable conversation can lower stress levels, improve mental health, and also boost the immune system.
Paying full attention means putting aside distractions and being fully present in the moment.
“Never miss or postpone an opportunity to genuinely appreciate or thank someone, It’s a beautiful energy and must always be in flow. Holding back breaks the flow and the energy cycle!”
- Luke Coutinho
Moreover, attention has a direct impact on sleep quality, a crucial pillar of good quality sleep. When caregivers and patients feel heard and understood during the day, it reduces stress and anxiety, leading to more restful nights.
The Art of Truly Listening: One of the Best Medicines
Have you ever felt the difference between someone just hearing you and someone truly listening? It’s a feeling unlike any other. Truly listening means being fully present, understanding the emotions behind the words, and responding with empathy. This kind of deep listening can transform relationships and create a profound sense of spiritual connection.
This is a reminder for all of us to be more present in our conversations as well. How often do you speak with your parents and elders? Can they share their problems with you? If you find yourself not able to keep in touch often, make time for them. Reach out to them every day for a few minutes and listen to them. You’ll notice how they will start to feel better and flourish.
This can be incredibly calming and reassuring for them. I’ve seen it time and again: when people feel genuinely heard, their anxiety diminishes, their stress levels drop, and they begin to heal emotionally.
Active listening involves more than just nodding along. It’s about making eye contact, showing that you care, and being fully engaged in the conversation. It shows the other person that they matter to you, deepening your bond and strengthening your connection.
When someone needs to talk, give them your full attention, listen actively, and show empathy. It’s a simple yet powerful way to offer support and foster deeper connections.
A Gentle Display of Compassion
Compassion is the quiet magic that weaves itself into the fabric of our daily interactions; it’s the tender touch, the listening ear, the quiet patience that says, “I’m here with you.” Consider the transformative power of a gentle gesture—a warm smile that slices through despair, a note that holds words of encouragement, or a hand extended during times of trouble.
Such acts of kindness create more than just moments of comfort. They become a safety net of emotional safety net to catch someone in their most vulnerable times. Compassion reaches out to the ones most in need, offering a beacon of hope and a promise of shared strength.
Every time we choose empathy over indifference, we ignite a spark of recovery and resilience.
Sharing Love and Affection: The Heart Healer
Love truly is the ultimate medicine, and everyone can become a healer by loving unconditionally. It comes in many forms and can hold space for the individual you love. This could be a friend, relative, colleague, or partner. Studies show that receiving love and support can improve your immune system. Moreover, feeling appreciated can also reduce stress, and quicken the pace of recovery. I’ve witnessed how a simple hug, a kind word, or just being present can make a world of difference.
Love creates a safe space to accept a condition and start the journey to healing, where individuals feel valued and cherished. It’s not just about grand gestures; holding space for the people you love can heal them. Don’t shy away from letting your family and friends know how much they are loved and appreciated, especially if they are ailing.
Final Word
Medicines are essential to a treatment course, but there’s more to recovery. However, you can help someone live a peaceful and joyous life by giving them these five invaluable gifts. Be it a temporary illness, chronic condition, or old age, you’ll see them get better in many ways.
You don’t need a medical degree to be a healer. Start right where you are. Moreover, don’t forget to apply these five medicines to yourself first.
I always tell my patients’ loved ones: You can’t pour out of an empty cup.
Always use vitamin C, common sense, and take your medication based on your doctor’s advice. Then, you can be present for yourself to show up for those you love. At the end of the day, we are as rich as our experiences in life.
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Disclaimer: Always make an informed choice. Keep your healthcare provider in the loop before trying anything new, especially if you are going through a medical condition or are on medications.
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